It’s with a heavy heart Summer that I need to have this conversation with you. I didn’t have the heart to say it to your face so am sending you a message (it seems social media is the way most people in relationships communicate these days). I know we’ve been happy together so far and it’s been a good ride for us both, oh but, how do I say this, oh, you are beginning to bore me, yes you are. You dull me and tire me. I am getting depressed, I think purely because of you. I have started to avoid going out. That’s not me. Omg, what have you done to me? I think we need to break up. We need time apart. I can’t breathe in your presence. I am suffocating. Maybe if we take some time apart we may remember why we loved each other to begin with. There could be hope for us in the future but alas right now I can’t be around you. I know you are going to come begging me to stay (I am going to sing Rihanna’s ‘to the left to the left’). But I know myself. Once I make up my mind then that’s it. Pls, leave me alone for a while. Give me some breathing space and in a few months we will meet up and take it forward. With diminishing love for you, truly, Anju